A POEM FOR UKRAINE

Ukraine, crane your neck
Crane your neck and you will find wisdom
To the world you have become a source of entertainment
Popular you are for all the wrong reasons

Crane your neck Ukraine
And see how foolish it is for your citizens to fight each other
To divide yourself between East and West
Two different forces pushing Crimea and Kiev

Crane your neck Ukraine, find the compass leading to truth
Stop tempting war, see how shallow it is
To destoy your beautiful country
Based on what language one speaks

Some are using you for political milage
Others are riding on you to flex their muscle
But it is your children that are dying
It is your economy that is going to the dogs

See your policemen tired, see the tears in the crowd
As they hold weapons shouting propaganda
Deep down inside both sides ask
“What happened to us? We used to be brothers and sisters”

And you still are brothers and sisters
You still can be Ukraine, the yellow and blue
The rich country, the bread basket of fertile hue
Don’t you see your ports and location is the envy of many?

Don’t you see in your anger it is easy to be manipulated?
Refuse for you nation to be turned into a circus
Your help will not come from the East or West winds
Your help billows in the breeze of love

Crane your neck Ukraine
Above the toxic gas of hatred
Breathe. Think
Before more blood spills

BY DAYAN MASINDE

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To read more of Dayan Masinde’s writing on love, you may purchase “WHEN ANGELS MAKE LOVE”- poetry book by Dayan Masinde on Amazon. Click on this link for direction http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00JVUQAPY

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10 THOUGHTS PEOPLE HAVE AFTER SEX

10. “What if I get pregnant?”
After the trembling sweet O, harsh reality then sinks in. The two bodies cool after a steamy encounter. Perhaps the condom broke, perhaps no condom was used. She sees herself pregnant and gets scared. Again the morning after pill is about to be searched for. She’s not ready to be a mother; he is not ready to be a father. To make it worse, they don’t know each other well, they are not even a couple, and they are not married. Maybe soon comes abortion, next comes an emotional scar. Why are you playing with sex?

the mother of my child9. “Oh my goodness Sweerie that was amazing!”
This is the best feeling, the best thought. When he looks at his wife and kisses her, when she looks at him and feels loved. This is the height of intimacy. The moment where “I love you” gets its deepest meaning.

autograph on my heart8. “I hate myself”
This is the thought of those selling their bodies, the thought of the one who has just cheated on their partner with another, the thought of the one who is breaking a marriage, the one who feels cheap, used and dirty. Sex is a gift from God, but if you abuse it, guilt will follow you, sex will cause you pain. Sex will be a high you run to that leaves you low, and to cope with that low some run to sex again and the cycle continues. So many hide behind fake smiles, praising the wonderful sex they are having in affairs or with multiple partners but deep inside they are empty. Stop ruining the beauty of sex for yourself.

roar dayan7. “I hate faking a climax”
Only a woman can do this, a man cannot fake his climax since for him there must be a white larva explosion as evidence. Many wives are frustrated in bed, women who feel their man only cares about himself. So she fakes it to end her misery quickly as he feels he is a conqueror. If you are not a virgin, the worst part is when you think “This is not the best I have had”, comparing your current sexual experience with that of a mind-blowing one you had with an old flame.

she's missing her king6. “I hope I’ll get pregnant this time”
This is a deep cry of a couple that has been trying to get pregnant but in vain. Pressure is more on the woman to get a baby and often when the pressure is too much it ruins the chances of her getting a baby. Her husband should keep her feeling relaxed and wanted, loved with or without a baby.

feed the baby dear, i shall feed you5. Are you up for another round?
This is for the hot couple, the lovers driving each other wonderfully crazy. A woman can go for many back to back rounds but the man might take some few minutes, in those minutes, keep it steamy, explore.

the night of our honeymoon4. “I hope I was good enough”
One of the biggest insecurities lie in our performance in bed. The stakes are so high in a world where a man wants a lady in the streets but a freak in the bed, men openly drool over blue movie stars, and women with big behinds and boobs; in a world where women show excitement over men who are sex-symbols, so much music going on of men praising how great they are in bed, plus all the ridicule and stereotyping surrounding the size of a man’s tool. It comforts the heart when your spouse tells you “You did me so well!” and it’s believable. If you expect your spouse to be faithful, then your natural desire is that your spouse finds your sex amazing.

autograph on my heart3. “I miss making love”
This is a tragic thought, when sex with your spouse is just that- sex, no love. The warmth is gone, no intimacy, just two horny bodies, a partner who demands your sex, you give it and then the partner walks away like you were some form of a sex slave. Whether you will have a quickie, rough sex or slow and passionate sessions, your spouse must feel loved. After the release, hold each other, have a heart to heart conversation, kiss.

planting kisses2. “I wonder what your HIV status is”
Worry creeps in when you begin to think you might have just opened a door to your life that will harm you. When you know very well the person you have just been with is unfaithful, and chances are, has been getting some sugar from other quarters.

kissing my way to my wife's twin grapes1. “Sex was great but we still have issues to resolve”
Never use sex to blanket your issues as a couple. Sex is not the best way of measuring a good relationship; it’s possible to have explosive sex even with someone who hurts you. Do calm down after the high and talk about your issues. Make up sex is good, but only when actual making up occurs and matters are addressed.

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To read more of Dayan Masinde’s writing on love, you may purchase “WHEN ANGELS MAKE LOVE”- poetry book by Dayan Masinde on Amazon. Click on this link for direction http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00JVUQAPY

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10 WAYS TO KNOW YOU ARE EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE

10. When you lean on addiction
Do you turn to alcohol, sex, pornography, drugs when times are hard? Do you use an addiction to escape the reality of your life? Emotionally strong people don’t run away from the matter, they don’t hide it under the carpet; they confront it, building up a strong mind and heart, they pray, they lean on friends instead. Leaning on addiction doesn’t solve issues, in fact, you will keep leaning on the addiction to help you cope with the mess and emptiness the addiction brings you.roar dayan

9. When you seek revenge
Did someone wrong you and you’re devoting your energy on getting back and settling scores? Do you find yourself scheming on how to come on top to prove a point? Emotionally unstable people want to succeed because they are insecure and want to prove a point, but mature and stable beings work to succeed out of purpose, doing the right thing. We live in a world that has glorified haters and sings about showing your hater some hate back. Soap operas and movies make revenge look glamorous, but in reality, only an insecure person will put effort in attacking back. It’s wise to be the bigger person. The world goes to wars when emotionally unstable people are in power.

protect africa8. When you use manipulation
“If you love me you will have sex with me”, how many have used that line? How many use threats to get things done? Do you threaten your lover, your work mates, your friends, your children, your employees to get things done? That is a sign of emotional instability; where you feel you must coerce someone because you have fallen short when it comes to attracting loyalty, faithfulness, a following or respect.

the night of our honeymoon7. When you are easily swayed by others
Do you have a mind of your own? Or is your voice silenced by the noise of others? Is it easy for someone to confuse you? Emotionally unstable people desire to fit in, and they will do anything to gain acceptance. They are the type whose friends will tell them “Man you’re being too soft with your woman” then he becomes less loving to his woman. The type who are told “Woman you are ugly” and then she loses her self-esteem and becomes too self-conscious

uplifting music6. When you are angry towards God
Are you rebelling against God because of a tragedy? Are you angry at God because things are not going your way? Mad at God because a loved one died? To emotionally grow is to realize that God is God whether you believe or not. Death will happen, death is beyond us; but life after death is in God’s hands. Instead of hating God because of the death of a loved one, why not thank God that you got to have life, you got to know that person and loved that person while they breathed. Life in itself is a gift, stop acting like you are entitled to it yet the very air you breathe you cannot manufacture. Instead of running away from God because things went wrong, run to God to be on the right side no matter how many times you hit a wall. We often focus too much on getting blessed and having prayers answered; yet God wants to make us a blessing, make us the answer to prayers. God wants more than giving you things, God wants to transform you.

patrice lumumba5. When you make decisions based on feelings
“I don’t feel like going to work” then you quit your job. “I don’t feel I love you anymore” then you end a relationship. “I don’t feel understood” then you withdraw from your friends. “I don’t feel sexy” then you sleep around to bring sexy back. All those are feelings, feelings are amazing when they are good feelings, but bad feelings will also be there. Feelings are never constant. At times you are in high moods other times low. Don’t use feelings as a compass, be rational, objective, and let bad moods get swept away by good moods before you make hasty decisions based on bad feelings. Love is not a feeling, it is a decision, a responsibility; not every day will your lover make you feel wow, sexy or mushy.

our love song made in heaven4. When you contemplate committing suicide
This thought is for cowards. This is the ultimate show of “I am emotionally unstable. A loser. I give up!”

mural 103. When you air your problems to attract sympathy
This happens a lot on Facebook, social media and social gatherings. Some people love to parade their woes looking for attention. They will add tears to their eyes to get a longer hug, prolong their sickness to get more nursing, they will pretend all is not well or use the fact that they are not well to be remembered. It is OK to allow people to be there for you, but analyze yourself; do you feel people are not giving you much time and thought and so you display your problems to stay in the radar?

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2. When you find it hard to forgive
It takes a strong heart to forgive. Keeping that bitterness in your heart only makes you emotionally imbalanced, you are the person carrying that unnecessary weight that is messing up your heart while the person you are not forgiving is busy living their life in joy and has moved on. Don’t wait for someone who has wronged you to come and ask for forgiveness, maybe they don’t even know they did you wrong. Don’t darken your heart just because someone hasn’t said “I am sorry!”

john wesley1. When you are afraid to love
Are you giving excuses why you cannot love? Do you run away when someone is getting close to the warmth of your heart? Have you hidden your heart because you are afraid if you love you might be heartbroken just like it happened in the past? History shouldn’t define you but enlighten you. It takes guts to be vulnerable to someone, to let a lover in; true love is for the brave!

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To read more of Dayan Masinde’s thoughts on love, download for free “WHEN ANGELS MAKE LOVE”- poetry book by Dayan Masinde on http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00JVUQAPY

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